Slow down, savor each moment, and expand your pleasure.
While there are specific techniques for guys who want to last longer in bed, what most people really want to know is how to make their erotic experience last longer from start to finish. They want a more satisfying, exciting erotic experience overall, not just longer intercourse.
So for everyone who wants to know how to have more fulfilling sexual encounters, here are our top 10 suggestions for making the lovin’ last longer.
1. Savor the seduction.
Many long-term couples schedule sex, a common (and smart) strategy to make sure intimacy doesn’t fall to the bottom of their to-do lists. If you know a sex date is coming up, begin seducing your lover a few days in advance. And even if you don’t have a date night planned, make the effort to seduce your lover all week long.
On your own, start thinking about what you might like to experience. Do you want a relaxing full-body massage? Or perhaps you want to frisk it up and get a bit wilder this week? Let your own anticipation build, tease your lover by telling them how excited you are for your date night and notice what happens. When you get your mind on board, your body starts anticipating “the big event.”